ATTITUDE IS A SMALL THING THAT MAKES A BIG DIFFERENCE
It wouldn’t be too much for any of us to expect things to go our way for once right? Well,there is a way that would make success to come to us easily and its does not come with strings attached to it. You will or not be surprised to know that its within yourself. Yeah,its completely free because its withing you and its attitude.
Hung Downs stated that;’ A happy person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances but rather a person with certain set of attitudes. ‘ This means that you and you alone control your attitude..
Attitude is a tendency to respond positively or negatively towards a certain idea,object,person or situation. It influences our individual choice of action and responses to challenges,incentives and rewards. Your attitude is the sum of all your thought and feelings towards any issue. The way you perceive the things that happen to you,the way you react to life’s hurdles and setbacks and how you cope when curve balls are thrown our way are the major determinant that differentiate successful outcomes from failure all in the name of your attitude.
Positive attitude helps you to accept constructive criticism because there is always ways you can improve if you are open to progress. Positive attitude will help you to embrace the challenges because no one wants to sit idle for too long anyway. It will make you feel strong and act in an adaptive way to any given situation.
The most successful people always thinks about what they want and how to get it most of the time. In this, developing a positive attitude that changes their entire life. When you think about what you want,you feel great and in control of your life. Personally I can testify to this because thinking about how I want to succeed in life or to achieve my goals makes me feel stronger,alive and powerful even though I have not Archie them yet.
A positive attitude will be your ticket to success. Think,act and talk with enthusiasm and you will attract positive result. If you want to succeed start thinking of yourself as successful because success is the state of mind.
Think of your attitude as the mental filter through which you experience the world. See the world through the filter of optisim,that is the glass being half full rather the glass being half empty. Think of I can instead if I can’t. Do not dwell on problems instead concentrate on solutions. See good in others instead of finding faults in others. Focus on your blessings instead of limitations.
When the child is learning how to walk and falls down 50 times,they never think to themselves,”this isn’t for me” he or she keeps going for weeks and weeks with a positive attitude until he gets it right. Keep that childish drive. Focus and keep trying no matter what,with a state mind that you are going to get it right.
Lastly,criticism,rejection,ridicules and doubt s are the things that will make you lose enthusiasm. You will get frustrated, depressed and most tragically you will give up on your dreams. What you should do is look at those things in a positive way and a way of proving your doubters wrong by working really hard and not give up.