All things are subjective, a person’s circumstances has nothing to do with current or past events, but rather their perception of those events, and the attitude and manner in which they choose to approach it.
Attitudes are based on assumptions. In order to change attitudes you must first change your assumptions. It always comes down to this ,- We can’t change our circumstances but we can choose our reaction to the circumstances, we can’t control others but we can control ourselves!
Life has many things to bring you down but what can really bring you down is your attitude.It is your attitude at the beginning of a task more than anything else that will determine your success or failure.Develop the attitude that there are more reasons why you should succeed than reasons why you should fail. Your attitude should be if you are pushed towards something that you think is a weakness, then you will turn that perceived weakness into a strength.Your living is determined not so much by what life brings to you as by the attitude you bring to life; not so much by what happens to you as by the way your mind looks at what happens.When you are faced with a problem, adopt the attitude that you can and will solve it.The best thing you can do is to let go of what you can’t control, and invest your energy in the things you can control.