Social Life

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Princess Meghan,The Duchess of Sussex is Voice at the Storm’s centre as she’s named as one of 2022 most influential women.

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Queen Meghan, The Duchess of Sussex at Hope awards

It’s not like she needs to be reminded,or you need to be told that, Queen Meghan, The Duchess of Sussex is ALL TIME, the most influential woman in the world . Whether she is in limelight or out of it ( which she ‘disapears’ for almost five months without a peep of her), you will still find her in top News, most talked about figure in social media , news website,blogs and sometimes in front pages of the most prominent papers.

The beautiful Princess Meghan
The Duchess at power of women event

Nevertheless, 2022 has been a special year for the Duchess, together with her husband, Prince Harry, The Duke of Sussex . As you know, they signed a multi _ million dollars deal with both Netflix and Spotify, and needly to say, they have delivered in abundance beyond am sure, what these companies would imagine. Even the critics are still in disarray not because they don’t that our power couple deliver but because their relentless negative campaign against this couple so that they fail, always ends up being a waste. But let leave it for another day 😊.

In August, Meghan, the Duchess of Sussex, surprised us with her talk show “Archetypes” from her Archewell production company with Prince Harry. In the show, which since its premiere took the No. 1 spot on Spotify’s charts in several countries, Meghan sat down with guests to dissect the semantics of labels historically applied to women such as “slut,” “ambitious” and “crazy.” despite some tiny Detractors with bigger microphone, “Archetypes” opened door to many discussion and talks. People shared experiences, learnt, and offered solutions. According to Spotify, Meghan ‘s Archetypes helped the company exemplifies the breakout quality Spotify is pursuing in the audio space.

So it did not come as a surprise when Fortune magazine named the Duchess of Sussex as their one of 2022 most influential woman, the message read as follows ;




Meghan Markle has become a symbol of resilience for many silenced women. Specifically speaking, for women of colour and, even more specifically, mixed-race and black women. Her experience within the royal family resonated with those who have had to navigate historically white, elitist institutions that are, at best, not built with them in mind and, at worst, outwardly hostile.

The royal family is an establishment largely maintained through silence and complicity. It’s this, in part, that makes Meghan’s choice to use her voice so powerful. This year she launched a podcast, Archetypes, where she interrogates the labels used to contain and inhibit women – fitting, given the projection and smears she has endured from the press. For the black community in particular, it was hard to watch her demonisation by the British media and public. But seeing her come into her own, and use her platform to speak about what matters to her, has sent a message even louder than she may have intended.

Visit and listen to this amazing podcast. I swear you won’t regret it. All the best as you listen and share with your family and friends as a Christmas gift! https://open.spotify.com/show/6UfyXZgVAUX1UzF8j5L72t?si=CeJQ9yihTpuBSD_Ovx0j4Qhttps://open.spotify.com/show/6UfyXZgVAUX1UzF8j5L72t?si=CeJQ9yihTpuBSD_Ovx0j4Q

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A journey should teach you to use your energy in a positive way. Don’t angst, don’t stress and don’t worry. The shit that’s going to happen is going to happen anyway.

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If you look around you will see so clearly that people stress too much. Almost everyone has a big pile of crap they churn over day after day. It’s normal. Only it doesn’t have to be. People resign themselves to be a product of what has happened to them without realizing that they have a choice of who to be in any given moment. Change takes an instant. A journey should teach you to use your energy in a positive way. Don’t angst, don’t stress and don’t worry. The shit that’s going to happen is going to happen anyway.

The other thing, don’t ever justify what makes you, you, or how good you are. You don’t have to stand up and be counted for shit that doesn’t matter. You want to eat a feast, you eat one. You don’t have to justify how much or how little is on your plate. Not ever. None of it ever matters – we are all as equally as important as the next person. There is no top dog, just an illusion of one.

Look away, think something nice for a minute, and bish bosh bang. Done. What feeding anxiety does is exacerbates, so if you are in pain all the time don’t suffer the pain, because pain is there for a reason. And that reason does not have to define you.

To be socially successful,you need to be warm, optimistic, resilient, confident and persuasive.

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There’s more to life than being intelligent and being admired for solving problems and doing maths. But what really makes a great life is ability to deal with people, being good at controlling your emotions, responding well to other people’s moods and communicating skillfully.

Take decision to accept people the way they are, rather than trying to change them and be more thoughtful and considerate.

Restraining anger can certainly lift your social life. But for real successful social life you also need to be warm, optimistic and resilient. Confident, persuasive and inspiring.

Restrain self_doubt and negative thought while projecting self_respect and honesty. Learn how to read social situations,see yourself as others see you,and understand other people’s behaviour by developing your awareness of your emotions. Noticing your moods and trying to figure out what triggered each.

Train yourself to recognize and challenge unhelpful thoughts,like thinking you will fail, blaming others for your problems or focusing on the worst possible outcome.

Work on how to be assertive and expressing difficult emotions,making your stand known, how to say no and how to set your priorities.

Never assume others know what you are thinking,say what you want and what you are thinking and don’t be afraid of conflict.

Never miss an opportunity to build your social life and before you know it, your whole life will be loads better!

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