“Be Truthful, gentle and be fearless “~Gandhi. This is the quote,posted on now retired Meghan’s blog, The Tig. True to the words of the quote, when it emerged that she would not attend the coronation together with her husband . She once said that , “As you get older,you become more comfortable in your skin and comfortable in saying no to things….. I’ve also learned that saying no is just as valuable as saying Yes. It’s something that, I think comes with age and really having a sense of your self_ worth. And then you make a choice s based on that”.

The magnificent couple, particularly The Duchess, has a tendency of doing the opposite of what their detractors say they would, and that why everytime they make any decisions, the decisions are met with confusion, backlash, hurt, amazement as well as wows. This is simply because people are fascinated by the couple whether they want to admit it or not. They centre themselves on their lives such that any decisions that don’t meet their expectations,they feel hurt.

Royalist know this, whether they admit it out loud is another story , but they know that the biggest draw in royal world is Harry and Meghan, especially Meghan. She is the biggest thing, she is everything. She is like ruler, Commander the Queen and also the royal with lowest rank. Royal world can’t function well or nothing goes well if she is not centered around it. That is why last few days it was madness when she announced that she was not attending the ‘biggest party’ in town.

What does this tell us? It tells us that she does what she wants to do not what others tells her to do. Some have sspeculated that the reason she is not attending is for her son’s birthday, but I don’t think that was the case. Reason being that last year she attended Queen Elizabeth jubilee party despite Princess Lilibet’s first birthday. She could have done the same with Prince Archie and celebrate his birthday in UK. Me being me thinks that she thought Charles does not deserve her presence. The respect she had for Queen Elizabeth could not be measured up to the respect if there is any for Charles. Auch! That might have been hard for Charlie .

She is avoiding ‘boos’, please, this is the WOMAN, who had such a courage to enter the lion’s den full of Lions. Walk about during death of Queen Elizabeth? Anyone remember that?? So please spare me with your boos nonsense!

Did we forget her graceful jubilee attendance?That’s madness when you think about it. She and her husband, Prince Harry had the whole church watching them while they came in as the real power couple. Holding hands supporting each other while wearing so top notch clobber they both wore. Her sister in law had looked on behind and she couldn’t stop her mouth from uttering the word WOW!. Actually can’t blame her because,there is some unexplainable power with Everything Meghan!

“They were really shocked and chocked, never expected them to come out so bold with heads held high. All attentions on them, they were stunning, gorgeous and amazing ETC ! am sure they talked about Harry & Meghan for whole months with their friends, family etc.” One of the best many comments from the observers.

“Yes o! They had the whole Isle to themselves like the royal majesties They are. Nothing makes your haters mad, than to see you thriving and glowing. No-one could miss that triumphant entry”, The best quote yet from the observer

“They will always be Center of Attraction to the public no matter what and God is behind them. A child born and death in the family brings people together for unity but with the palace of Buckingham is different . But H&M will always be our Best of the Best ❤️❤️❤️❤️” some couldn’t stop gushing!

I will leave you with this one of my favorites quotes of her, “Make a choice: continue living your life feeling muddled in this abyss of self-misunderstanding, or you find your identity independent of it.” — Meghan Markle, Duchess Of Sussex. Also don’t forget to check the poem below

“Walking with her head held high,
Side by side with her true love
Showing the naysayers
that they can’t bring her down.
With the heavenly guidance
of a mother in law,
the pure unconditional
love of her mother
with the love and joy
her babies give her,
MEGHAN MARKLE, THE DUCHESS OF SUSSEX
walked into the Church
Giving the smile of a woman of
strength, resilience, grace and courage” wrote one of her supporter. A beautiful poem in deed that describe the situation.

NB/ some quotes are credit to the right owner