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Queen Meghan Markle,The Duchess of Sussex is 2022 one of top 5 most googled woman, with Zendaya,Selena William, Meghan, Beyonce and Michele Obama among in the list respectively.

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The Duchess of Sussex

The Duchess of Sussex is 2022 one of top 5 most googled black woman . Among in the list is Zendaya,selena william, meghan emerging at number 3, beyonce and Michele Obama respectively.

In 2022, Meghan had a very successiful projects on her sleeve. Archetypes podcast series topped globally and it was the one to dethrone Rogan when everyone else was unable to. As if topping the charts was not enough, it went ahead and won peoples choice award.

That was not all, In December, we were blessed to be welcomed into Harry and Meghan little world through Netflix documentally series Harry& Meghan. The documentary went ahead to emerge as worlds most watched Netflix documentary topping in all countries. As I always keep on saying, Harry and Meghan second name is Success.

In terms of fashion, The Duchess is a trendsetter. She is emulated by many, and the MOST notable is her sister in law. Though in 2022 she was seen rarely, her fashion game and effect interms of outselling was unmatched. Everytime she appeared, whether during the burial of Queen Elizabeth, for Invictus games, Jubilee cerebrations thouh it was a little glimpse, shopping, out and about in Montecito grocery buying or attending Young World Summit, her fashion game was a top topics of discusssions. People,fans and foes replicated her looks as they were inspired by this Queen and appreciations could not be misssed.

The Duchess of Sussex at Hope Award in New York with her husband Prince Harry where they were awarded for their Racial,Justice and Humantarian activism. Among the aluminae of the Award is President Barrack Obama.
Some of Notable 2022 fashion choices by The Duchess of Sussex. The different pieces of fashion were highly talked about in fashion world and went ahead and emulated by many known celebrities and ordinary people confirming her high influence.

Her philathlophic work could not me missed. The Duchess of Sussex , inspired by her own podcast series, donated 1 million dollars to be distributed among the strongest women who have defied the odds to overcome challenges and emerged as winners. Very kind indeed. Are we to forget that this is the lady who offered a mother her coat to cover the child due to the change in whether?

In respect to that, are we really surprised that Queen Meghan, although rarely seen in 2022 is the top most serched on Google?

This is a new day. No more forever the victim. Try a different approach: forever the victor. Break that negative cycle.

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You are not a victim. You’re a victor. You wouldn’t have opposition if there were not something amazing in your future. Keep a smile on your face. Keep a spring in your step. Stay positive. Stay hopeful. God is still on the throne.

You have to take the hand that you have been dealt and make the most of it.

Nothing that has happened to you has stopped your destiny. That person that did you wrong,walked away? It may have been painful but they did not ruin your life. They don’t have that much power. If they could stop God’s plan they would be bigger than God.

Don’t let one bad break, one injustice,one difficult season cause you to be sour or have a chip on your shoulder. As long as you accept you are a victim you are going to be stuck.

Don’t use your unfair situation as an excuse to feel sorry for yourself,to give up on life,to not Pursue on your dreams.

You are the generation that’s going to set a new standards. You are the one that is going to see this shift in your thinking. You are not a slave, victim, limited and at a disadvantage.

No more forever victim.

Do your part and put on those new clothes so to speak. See yourself differently. Have a new perspective. You are not a victim of your past or a victim of what didn’t work out. Instead, you are a Victor.

Some difficult situations are steps on the way to your destiny. That difficult situation is leading you to a new level. You won’t understand it now but that is a necessary step to get you to the throne. You won’t understand everything that happens along the way,there will be plenty of opportunities to be a victim,those are the test.

Will you keep the right attitude when it’s not fair,you feel like being discouraged,why did this happen, don’t ply that role,refuse to be a victim. It may have meant to be for your harm but at some point God is going to turn it into your advantage. It’s going to catapult you where you cannot go on your own.

To be socially successful,you need to be warm, optimistic, resilient, confident and persuasive.

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There’s more to life than being intelligent and being admired for solving problems and doing maths. But what really makes a great life is ability to deal with people, being good at controlling your emotions, responding well to other people’s moods and communicating skillfully.

Take decision to accept people the way they are, rather than trying to change them and be more thoughtful and considerate.

Restraining anger can certainly lift your social life. But for real successful social life you also need to be warm, optimistic and resilient. Confident, persuasive and inspiring.

Restrain self_doubt and negative thought while projecting self_respect and honesty. Learn how to read social situations,see yourself as others see you,and understand other people’s behaviour by developing your awareness of your emotions. Noticing your moods and trying to figure out what triggered each.

Train yourself to recognize and challenge unhelpful thoughts,like thinking you will fail, blaming others for your problems or focusing on the worst possible outcome.

Work on how to be assertive and expressing difficult emotions,making your stand known, how to say no and how to set your priorities.

Never assume others know what you are thinking,say what you want and what you are thinking and don’t be afraid of conflict.

Never miss an opportunity to build your social life and before you know it, your whole life will be loads better!

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